Physics of Consciousness

The Anatomy of a Miracle

Wednesday, September 1st, 2021

August 31, 2021

I always translate miracle as Truth not yet optimally perceived.
Take a moment to contemplate the depth of this.
I use the same translation for Crazy and Magic.

Leads to the next question: what is reality? How do we know if we are perceiving reality optimally?
Indeed.
We create our reality, despite the fact that I do not feel most people realize this.
Yet.
I always like to include the yet.
Choices. Choices.
Are you aware of all the available choices?
It is challenging to know what you do not know.
There is a huge freedom when I can accept and acknowledge this sincerely to myself.
The illusion of knowledge stops curiosity and experience … and human evolution.

One has to stop what one is doing and focus on stuff that one has never conceived of before.
The only way one can ever conceive this is focusing on the potentialities.
One way to close the gap.
The gap between what we perceive as reality, and reality optimally perceived.

Wisdom presents in many forms. There is a capacity within each human being to feel truth as it is being expressed.
Truth is amazingly relative despite the structure of our education.
The truth is perceived according to one’s level of consciousness, energetic vibration.
The exploration awaits when we delve into the Physics of our own Consciousness.
Levels of expansion and contraction are dynamic. We fluctuate until we anchor a new threshold via naturally living our lives.
What is natural living?
An optimal question with likely infinite answers.
What if we entrain to unnatural living?
An optimal question.
When we ask the optimal question, we prime ourselves to receive the optimal answer?
I value questions. And questioning the integrity and relevance of our questions.
Be patient and open with yourself. Answers do come. The experience of self-sourced answers is exciting.
Follow the breadcrumb trail guided by your inspiration.
Experiment with your own life and experience.


The ability to be both curious and aware of the many assumptions that exist unquestioned in our system of systems … is a huge asset.
What do you truly know for sure?
We have been entrained to learn from books and the experiences of others.
Remember the telephone game as a kid?
One person makes a statement, whispers it to the neighbor in a circle of people. Repeated whispering around the circle and then the last one to hear the message proclaims it.
A group of 8 or more kids demonstrates the effect well.
The final statement tends to be enormously different from the original.
And then we all laugh at the zaniness of it.
In real life though, I am no longer laughing.
I am a proponent for direct experience as a way to know reality.
With direct observation, one can start a sense of knowing.
Experience is the best teacher.

The way we are educated with volumes of subjects and materials, learning to take someone else’s word for it, voila! It becomes a habit: leading to our current confusion in the world.
I also dream of development of a Science of Integrity, if Science continues to be perceived as driving major decisions for large groups of people. This science would braid nicely with the Physics of Consciousness. There is a threshold level where integrity is naturally held. For key decisions, we would ensure that appropriate individuals would hold these positions to make choices that work for everyone.
Unity is linked to understanding. Agreement is not essential.
Polarity exists widely in the world. The divide and conquer tactic has been effective in maintaining a fear/scarcity mindset and tone in our system of systems.
Unity is linked with a love/abundance mindset.
There is a choice becoming more clear with each passing week.
Unresolved emotions and traumas are energetically purging in the current climate of 2021.
Which can be perceived as frightening until you understand the natural progression of a human being as consciousness expands. It tends not to be for the fainthearted.
Human beings are fully capable of a live and let live mentality.
This would require a truth and communication system available at this same level of consciousness which is corruption-proof.
Many self-proclaimed experts who read their expertise in a book or learned it in a course of instruction function for generations in the systems. Relative truth based on a former level of consciousness continues to be pushed, not taking into account the multifactorial shifts in the environment (the average, median and mode of consciousness levels).
Each time an experience is shared/told, the authenticity will get distorted and lost in translation. Not taking into account so many variables within the context of life.
The relevance shifts as humans evolve and the earth energy dynamics change.
We have yet to develop a system of questioning assumptions. Within the premises of pure Science, it exists in principle and not in practice. Yet.

Essential ingredients to experience a miracle:
1. A human being in their state of awareness/consciousness – not yet embodying their full capacity to flow energy through their body system.
2. Openness to allow natural flow of energy through their body. No matter whether this is within or outside of conscious awareness.

Quite simple. An experience is perceived as a miracle when one level of understanding and believing is transcended to another more expanded understanding.

One human’s miracle is another human’s reality.

ADDENDUM
Resolve INNER CHILD Wounds:
Common wounds: feeling worthless, unlovable, not intelligent or imperfect.
There are others.
I was a little late to the party of Inner Child work.
With the assistance of a facilitator, Valerie Donner, naturally gifted in many ways, I discovered a simple formula for resolving Inner Child Wounds. Click her name to link to her website, if you feel to explore.

5 Easy Steps:
1. Acknowledge
2. Accept
3. Ask for healing light to flow through your body
4. Send yourself love, take notice of yourself receiving it
5. Reassure yourself

Self-sourced. Connected to your highest vibrational parts. One term: Superconsciousness.

Prerequisite: Fully loving and accepting yourself as you are now. OR Intending to.
Awareness is 90% in the area of resolving issues. The last 10% finds you in creative ways once you have been able to allow awareness.
We all have issues.
I feel that every human being alive has PTSD (Post-traumatic Stress Disorder) to greater and lesser degrees.
Many hearts make light work.
Do it yourself or if this sounds foreign to you, discover a facilitator that resonates with you.
They are out there.
I guarantee it.

A magical equation:
Joy=Love-Fear
Acknowledge Fear and use the 5 step formula above.
You will thank yourself.
It is an inside job.
When you get the inside in alignment, the outside world will have no other option but to follow.
An explanation of you must believe before you will see.
Many are waiting to see it before they believe it. It is a risk to not question that approach.
If we in highest relative truth are the creators of our reality ( I sincerely believe we are), and you need to see it before you believe it – failing to acknowledge your creation of duality/polarity via fear/scarcity mindset, you will not know unity energetics in the love/abundance mindset.
Simply by connecting to natural human qualities: openness, curiosity, kindness, compassion, understanding – at least the intention to get there: one opens a door to infinite possibilities. I see the risk of being a skeptic needing to see in order to believe – refusing the real-life experiment – as much greater than exploring being kind and understanding.
Unity tri-wave consciousness awaits your sincere exploration.

When You Believe sung by the singers from Prince of Egypt Musical






Consciousness 101 – Fundamental to Life

Wednesday, September 23rd, 2020

“Our thoughts can change the world”

The theme of this 34 minute video: What is the Reality Revolution? The Mindblowing movement to hack Reality. (Click title to view)
A few quotes from the video:
Our greatest threat comes from fear and a lack of understanding of our exponentially rising power.
Our interpretative framework governs our perception of reality.
If you’re a cynic, then life becomes banal and cynical. Everyday becomes a drag. … Open yourself up to a more optimistic view of the world.
Find authorship over your subjectivity.

The video mentions Masaru Emoto’s Research.
Click title to view a 6 minute demonstration of how human vibrational energy, thoughts, words, ideas and music affect the molecular structure of water. The crystal formations of water droplets from a variety of conditions were photographed at the freezing point.

Consciousness is the fundamental driver of Reality.
If this statement feels controversial to you, I urge you to keep an open mind.
What are you thinking about? What type of world has your thoughts created for you? The understanding of consciousness offers an avenue to collaborate solutions to any and all the perceived challenges/problems in the world. Let me explain with my intention to be breviloquent. Defined as expressing with a concise style.

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The initial questions that lead me to discover the importance of consciousness came about 15 years ago (from Deepak Chopra – back in my ‘Oprah/Chopra era’). Who am I? (Truly). What do I want? (Beware the human nature to bury our desires deep within our subconscious mind.) Great questions for anyone. Beware the mask that our cultural conditioning helped us to create.

When you ask the optimal question, you allow optimal answers to come your way. Optimal is in the mind of the beholder. Optimal group collaboration is highly recommended. It is a personal individual journey that each individual is free to explore.

Do you feel free? I remember a time when I believed I was free and well. Experience led me to discover it was a spoon fed illusion. Take notice of any cognitive dissonance when considering if this is your current state.

How to identify the illusion within the numerous delusions we all hold to greater and lesser degree? An essential and relevant question in this era of Covid-19 pandemic/pantomime/planned-demic. (3 different terms in usage out in the great wide world).

I upgraded my fundamental questions.
What is a human being comprised of- in totality?
The knowledge of the non-visible components are not integrated into our world’s systems … yet.
The electromagnetic fields that our body creates and connects us to our world fields.
(Hence – the non-supportive conditions of today.)
After a decade of sincere exploration, I recognize the importance of understanding our own consciousness and what is possible for a human being in our “true natural” state.
The Physics of Consciousness is the fundamental missing Science in the formulation of our world systems.

The other big question:
What is Reality?
And how pliable is it?
(Much more than traditional world systems would allow you to access understanding of.)
A simplistic metaphor I offer:
Our world systems are built on the concept that we are like “cameras”, taking still shots of an ‘existing reality’.
[The understanding of consciousness that exists in pockets of understanding stems from earliest quantum physics principles published as far back as the 1940’s.]
In actuality, a better metaphor for our consciousness is that we are more like film projectors. Our inner beliefs are viewed out in our external reality from the films that we create with our thoughts and beliefs.

In the era of social distancing, I feel a need to add my contribution to the narrative of April 2020.
I was called a conspiracy theorist recently for the first time by my parenting partner. I instantly laughed. Yet, I recognized it was not stated as a compliment. Many little phrases have injected themselves into the collective vernacular, the above being a notable one.

I feel very concerned about our the current mode of transmitting information to the public. The Mainstream Media is a tool with non-transparent controllers. Conscious Journalism appears to have minimal attention. With so many perspectives available, why use such a narrow focus? One answer to that question is that the controllers of the narrative exercise an amplification of their creative power.
The truth is relative. I question the motives of the curators of what is deemed relevant for the common man. How aware can anyone be with the system of the narrative being controlled in this profit-driven societal setup?
I firmly believe the curators/controllers of the narrative are well aware of how to transmit focused messages for the “film projectors” to continue to recreate the reality of their preference.

I have to be honest with myself. I have been waiting for years for other brave souls to come forward, share the relevant truth and question the foundation of our (semi) collectively agreed upon foundations for our systems.

I have been waiting for courageous others to rescue me from a reality that I do not prefer. Not an optimal choice as I see it now.

A longtime favorite movie clip from A Bug’s Life looks like an analogy for our world. Those in official positions of power are greatly outnumbered by those they deem to represent.
Hopper: You let one ant stand up to us, then they all might stand up! Those puny little ants outnumber us a hundred to one and if they ever figure that out there goes our way of life! It’s not about food, it’s about keeping those ants in line.

Jason Estes: Breaking the cycle. A 1 hour discussion

The Fundamental Difference between Stories and Reality from a movie exploration You Tube Channel.

None of us live in a vacuum.
It is each’s responsibility to curate our experience to create the world we desire to experience.
If you have yet to discover yourself in your desired experience, it is up to the individual to become curious and question the assumptions you have evidently made that are not a match to your True Nature.
It is both simple and complex at once.
To develop an insatiable relevant exploration into who you truly are and what you desire is the Hero’s Journey.
Exchange fear for excitement and tap into your own courage.
The more that choose this, the quicker we can create an harmonious world.
Willingness, truly, is the only requirement.

My explorations of consciousness have clarified a burning need within the world at large:
How do we determine the integrity and conscious awareness of the people in leadership (often with associated authority) who determine the parameters of our freedom and health/wellness?
This is nonexistent at present.
Does this concern anyone else?
I do not mean the ongoing “hot potato” game of switching leadership front men & women based on the current game we call democracy. 
The clever use of reality mapping used in this and former eras:
Injecting tag words and creating a reality that very loosely approximates the construct.
Operation Mockingbird.

The truth is hiding in plain sight.
Usually weaved masterfully with untruths.
Keeps everybody’s natural compass spinning. Confusion and lack of confidence is widespread in our Information Age.
This is a minuscule example about how cultural programming works.
He who controls the narrative, controls reality. Have you ever wondered who controls the narrative?

A whole new system is urgently required to simply address how we handle the narrative. The truth is shockingly relative to the mindset of the beholder.
Is our consent to the current narrative styles and streams truly informed?
Or manufactured?
A Chinese proverb warns:
If we do not change direction,  we are likely to end up exactly where we are headed.

It truly is a fabulous time to raise the stage and change the conversation.
Our collective thoughts are fearfully focused and that is how we create our “monsters” and “nightmares”.
Our collective habits recreate, in a vicious loop, our current state. Over and over.
Until we master the understanding about how we can create an upgraded, harmonious world.
Micro to macro.
We are so collectively embedded in habits that it will take clear focus to shift towards creating to match our true desires.
Without conscious (and consciousness) awareness, we will recreate our divided world.
The collective narrative continues to amplify fear in our amygdalas, a portion of our brain that strengthens our insecurities.
Unresolved trauma runs rampant in most people. It is an easy task to engage the fear mechanism with curated narratives designed to maintain the status quo.

Control and authority held in the hands of a minute minority of the population … acting through unresolved trauma.
This is how we got on this repeating cycle of fear and scarcity mindset creating nightmares and people to fear.
It would be equally easy to create a reality that allows everyone to live in harmony and respect for each other’s sovereignty.
Natural order. 
Live and let live.
It is not natural order to infringe the basic human rights of others.
I see it clearly. In my heart and higher mind.
Finding ways to share relative truth with a focus on solutions. The task at hand.

It is my deepest desire to play a role in developing a new system in recreating the systems of the world based in wellness and freedom for all. This will require optimal collaboration by dynamic groups of individuals who have developed a threshold of awareness about themselves and integrated a threshold of their own authenticity and abilities from the wounding and cultural programming we all have been subjected to.

Imagine. Click to hear Jack Johnson cover John Lennon’s Imagine.

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Map Of Optimal. Health. Peace.

Wednesday, November 15th, 2017

I added an addendum today to a piece I wrote back in April 2016. Self-published on my first website.

I did not fully recognize this piece at the time I wrote it.
I feel that writing flows through me but is not from me so I felt delighted to read it today and see a higher value in it than I did at the time of writing. Kinda magic …
But I always translate Magic as Truth not yet optimally perceived. Same translation for Miracle and Crazy.

It attempts to bring some willingness to the reader to understand Quantum Physics and the Four Point Logic system that enables a much wider ability to understand our world and how we are free to choose to optimize ourselves via a simple openness to consider an upgraded operating system. Widely available, yet not so commonly chosen – due more to lack of awareness of the choice than the lack of the choice.
A Beautiful Truth to freedom and wellness here.
Should you be willing to explore it.
Without willingness, it can never come.

Map Of Optimal. Health. Peace.

A new label I coined for myself today: I am a translator from four-point logic mindset to the more traditional two-point logic we have all been educated in. It is a challenging role. I keep exploring analogies, stories and thought processes that might pique the curiosity of the duality mindset population. And help the four-point logic mindset people to understand what has happened to them. There are lots of us around.
Optimal understanding is now coming into view.
There is a valid, alternative, mindset on offer.
Awareness and willingness go a long way to upgrade to this more collaborative, inclusive approach to life.
For everyone.

Crystallize

Wednesday, November 1st, 2017

My habit most mornings: I start with a 2-3 song shuffle of either one of my Spotify playlists or all my songs on iTunes.
Some people pull cards, which I occasionally do also. But my magic playlists are my preferred “go to”.
In life.
Today was Lindsey Stirling, Crystallize. Love this one!!
Nice start to the day.

Also: Until We Meet Again by Dougie Maclean.

Next up: Home by Philip Philips

I love the eclectic mixup of my varied musical tastes and attractions.

I have noticed that occasionally my shuffling of the various playlists also serves others.
Maybe this sounds strange but I feel it is part of my Psychic Mediumship.
I just know when I know.
Just a couple of days ago, I was building a shelter for the Sweatlodge, in Blackfoot First Nations tradition, to help the sacred site weather the storm of winter. My friend brought out her Bose bluetooth speaker (I bought the same one as it has a rich sound). I recognized how the songs were speaking to another of our 4 person crew.
I delighted in the experience while I was sewing the plastic cord through the eyelets of the carport tarp – recently purchased from Costco. I ended up in a timewarp that had me missing a meeting that I was enthusiastically anticipating. Of course, it was perfect. My disappointment led to a vulnerable sharing and connection with my dear friend, the owner of the speaker. I often say these days that Spirit works in mysterious ways.
I was on my new rural property, a sacred site that I was inspired to steward.
I am asking for clarity in my purpose.
My music playlists do play a role.
I have known this for a long time. Yet never quite putting my finger on how it will work.
It works whether or not I understand it or consciously design it.
That is a Beautiful Truth that I feel applies to all of us, each in our unique way.

After my deep sharing. The four of us were enjoying a break together.
Banter was enjoyable.
I got feedback (after the fact) about how powerful a sharing I playfully put out to the group.
I demonstrated out loud a key style of my self talk.
We were debriefing about the installation of our carport.
The company who constructed the carport was French.
Parts arrived in boxes.
Assembly was required.
Instructions were not initially very decipherable.
We dug in. All four of us. Only after towards 8 people had constructed the metal bar skeleton the day before.
Our combined skills and talents … led to successful completion of the task.
A late discovery of a You Tube demonstration video offered some late confirmations of some key components, most of which we learned by experience by then. Ha ha
One of the team was feeling a lack of intelligence in an area he normally excels in.

I remarked I am as intelligent as I am. Sometimes I am very intelligent. Sometimes I am not.
I am pretty neutral about this. I do not judge it. I do not beat myself up when I find those moments of not.

This is a formula for me:
I am as thin as I am.
I am as clear as I am.
I am as beautiful as I am.
I am as particular as I am.
I am as tolerant as I am.
I am as generous as I am.
I am as kind as I am.
I am as happy as I am.
I am as in tune as I am.
I am as intuitive as I am.
I am as playful as I am.
I am as serious as I am.
I am as logical as I am.
I am as enthusiastic as I am.
(I am as sexy as I am. Tee hee)

Do you see the formula?
Whatever discernable (traditionally judge-able) trait I can think of, I choose an optimistic version of the dual judgement at hand. THEN, I sidestep the judgement via this style of self-talk.
I have been doing this quite a while but I had never said it out loud. Until two days ago.
I find the English language is set up to judge.
Vocabulary choices and commonly heard dialogue styles are an array of judgements.
The English language is dualistic by design.
It is setup to maintain duality thinking.
I feel it is all an illusion. There is no right or wrong. The Truth is Relative.
We are each unique. With all that is required to flourish. Only IF we feel free to be our authentic selves.
Duality as opposed to a more collaborative, unity approach limits individual optimization – by design.
When we choose to approach life in a spirit of unity and collaboration, we can create and maintain a more harmonious coherent energy field.
My definition of coherent, as used here: I am referring to the energy field of our physical body. More of a physics concept than anything else. It supports well-being when optimal.
One simplified way I like to describe this is when what you think, what you say, what you do, what is in your heart AND what is in your soul – all match up and align.
So many roadblocks to this in our world. Yet I believe we have more choice with this than we have been traditionally taught.
Personal coherence. A physical state of both your visible and invisible components.
Heartmath Institute has a short little video to better describe what I am talking about here.
If you have not already seen this, I highly recommend you take 7 minutes to watch it.
I like to call this multidimensional anatomy.
Have you ever thought of this?

French is my first language, yet I do not presently hold mastery with it… yet anyway.
I call it a facility.
I was raised by two French-First parents.
The French language is based with a much stronger connection to unity and collaboration.
I believe this does influence me. In a positive way.
I cannot speak for other languages but have had this type of discussion with people holding other languages first.
Multilingual people really concur with my views. Whatever that is worth to you …
You are free to decide.
Feel free to play around with this.
I warmly recommend it.
Self-accepting inner dialogue.
The beginning of a whole new way of relating. To yourself … and the world.
I throw it out as Food for Thought.

Intolerance: Insidious, Everywhere (Including Within You) and Powerful

Friday, October 20th, 2017

Intolerance has many hues. Have you ever stopped to wonder what effects this has on your own and everyone’s experience?
Anti-smoking sentiment is the most socially acceptable form of intolerance.
Yet there are so many others.
As justified as most people see it, particularly nonsmokers, I see it as suboptimal: to use your power in unsupportive ways.
It is far more optimal to communicate about your own choices.
To yourself mostly, and to others if necessary.
Example:  I prefer not to be in the company of people when they are smoking. A personal choice.
Maybe some assumptions have been made, but you need to be free to choose your experience as much as possible.
OR
Somewhat suboptimal as judgment lies within …
{I feel concerned about negative health benefits to people who smoke.
I am concerned for the public health costs for smoking related illness.}
… yet everyone should be free to voice their opinion. If not necessary, I would encourage you to withhold your judgment while making your own personal choice. To the best of your ability.
Keep in mind, the truth is a lot more relative than we have been educated traditionally.
Ultimately, decisions to smoke or not are personal.
There is responsibility on the smoker to live and let live too.
Pick up butts and garbage related to smoking. Take personal responsibility for your choice as best you can.
Consider the choice for nonsmokers who do not wish to be present while you smoke. Etc.

Could there be a day when we can simply be aware that there is another person having their experience and leave it at that? A stepping stone could be to get curious about how the ills of the world have come to be created. Yes, sometimes others’ choices get in our face. When we can trust ourselves, we know that we can harmoniously communicate with others when we need to.
(OK, I am talking about the relative harmony in the developed world. Once survival is mostly out of the equation. When people are struggling for basic needs, the luxury of fine-tuning communication may not be as available. Hint: Take notice when there are populations struggling to thrive. It is relevant. It impacts everyone. Solutions exist. Willingness to enact them? Not always.)

Other common examples:
When you struggle with money, you may be intolerant to those who do not.
You may resent their ease with money.
You may delight in the complexities of looking after their assets – cars, homes, computers, phones, BBQ’s etc.
You can be exulted to learn that they are no happier than you are, perhaps even less so.
When you have financial freedom, you may be intolerant of those who do not.
You may resent their needs when they come up in your face.
Not just begging on the street but friends and acquaintances too.
It is easy to judge their past decisions as just cause for their struggles.
Of course there is a balance.
We all take some pride in the areas of life that we feel a certain level of mastery.
How do we handle it when we see someone else lacking what we feel is optimal mastery?
I see various tactics used out in the big wide world:
Thinking critical, judgmental thoughts about it. (Putting your focus on what you do not prefer. Felt by the Physics of Consciousness to support more of the same.)  The most common?
Aside – choosing to find positive things to focus on, even though they coexist with the less desirable circumstances, enables the Physics of Consciousness to work on your behalf. It can feel magical, but truly it is a Science. A Science inconvenient to the status quo. Value your vibe. You create it with your mindset and thought patterns. Extremely relevant to harmonizing human potential.
Back to the tactics when we see things not preferred:
Telling someone else with authority how it is done.  A common one.
Pointing out the justifications for the current challenges (as you see it).
Resenting and judging the other. Then turning your back to them.
I offer: have compassion. Consider how you are inspired to help. You may not be inspired to.
That is OK. BUT if you are not going to help, at least do not hinder.

My point: Judgmental, critical thoughts by themselves are a force in this world.
I believe the impact is a powerful deceleration of human potential.

As in the words of Steven Covey, author of The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People:
Seek First to Understand, Then Be Understood.
Often we do not have the time. No problem. Then train yourself to Live and Let Live.
In other words, untrain yourself to judge and criticize. You may need a coach for that.
I joke but feel free to take me seriously.
It takes a lot of time to truly understand someone. It may not fit into your day most of the time.
Consciously be aware of your thought patterns though. Throwing your power around to create more of the same? Seems counterintuitive.

You may be itching to lend a hand.
Consider if the individual truly wants your help. If they are not asking, a gentle offer but do not assume that your help is required or desired. Even when it could seem very helpful – from your perspective. Willingness to receive help needs to be present also. Maybe it is just me but sometimes I see the other as needing to help playing a stronger role than is my preference to be helped.
Is the apparent requirement from another of your help tied into your own self-worth? Beware.
Need lies in the eye of the beholder.
No two beholders will hold the same perception.
One man’s need is another’s life lesson in self competence.

The quality of your thoughts and observations may in fact create a subtle, yet powerful hindrance.
Have you ever considered this?

I believe that this entrained practice – of being intolerant of others, in ways great and small – has a much greater impact on our society than most like to be aware of.

I am such a fan of live and let live.
But also, unconditional compassion and love for the fellow human.
It is an Art. But also a Science.
I call it the Physics of Consciousness.
Simple, yet complex at once.
A paradox.

Let me attempt to explain based on my belief system.
Certainly, it may not be your own.
Yet it is good practice to consider the perspectives of others.
I do my best, yet am continuing on my learning curve of life.
As we all are.
I see the challenges.
I see the solutions.
Yet I only control one person: myself.
I have had to untrain myself to let go of any attempts to control others.
Training is ongoing.
I want to be truly helpful.
This is a decision that often cannot be made alone.
It requires a conversation.
To my eye, this refusal to manipulate others is not the common trend in the wider society.
Usually with good intentions.
For me, good intentions can be just a socially acceptable form of power and control.
Somehow having good intentions gives one the carte blanche to overstep boundaries in order to allow one to control those around them. To mold them into their likeness.
Diversity has not gained favor with those in power. Fear of change. My perspective.
I focus on observing, taking the best of what I see and reflecting my observations.
I desire to shine a light on problems that have been unrecognized in a tangible way.
Not necessarily in the moment.
I am a huge fan of considering whether the other person desires my help.
So often, they do not. I honor and respect this.
I so long for the reverse to also be true.
I feel often hindered by the strong desire of the other to help and support. In their specific way.
A subtle invalidation of who I am and choices I have made.
I want to be open to solutions, yet often the helper is not aware of the holistic situation.
I run into the opposite too. Where someone really wants and asks for my help. Yet I am not aware of the situation well enough to be of much tangible help. I help when I am inspired to and feel I can be truly helpful. From where I sit, it is the most challenging human condition to assess this properly. For both parties. Yet we can all do our best.

I hold a passionate desire to point out alternative perspectives with the goal of harmonizing the world around me.
Each individual is required to determine their own intentions and focus.
I warmly recommend that you consider a few points that fall under the Physics of Consciousness that may not be accepted in the consensus consciousness … yet.
We are more than simple atoms and molecules.
Each human being creates an energy field.
If this sounds ludicrous to you, I add a link for Heartmath Institute.
A video depicting the human energy field. Click on blue to watch.
The human heart has been found to sustain a powerful field of energy around each human body.
These energy fields entangle with each other – extending many feet around the body. The exact distance fluctuates. It is not a static measure.
Traits that we consider psychic, I offer are basic human abilities that we all have to greater and lesser degrees. To focus on these skills enables them to strengthen.
We were born with them, so they may not seem so obvious.
We have always been this way.
I speak to our ability to read the energy of others. Even their thoughtforms.
Consider the quality of thoughts you are thinking.
If others are subtly reading them, how might that affect them? What effects might you expect?

Personal coherence discussed in the 7 minute video (link above), when achieved by a tipping point percentage of us … will transform our world. I believe this wholeheartedly. I feel we are approaching this tipping point right now.

I recall a simple demonstration of nonphysical perceptions in a group setting.
A person was asked to stand at the front of the room.
Three people wrote supportive words on a piece of paper.
Then the same three people wrote non-supportive (judgmental) words on the paper.
The person in front of the room could clearly feel the difference.
This person did not consider themselves to be particularly psychic or intuitive.
I, and many others, believe intuition is a basic human ability.
Conscious awareness can vary.

Consider you are performing a task. Perhaps you are still on your learning curve and are a little frustrated.
Your boss is watching.
The boss could be thinking very critically about your lack of skill.
He/she may even be attacking your character.
This employee never gets it right. Look at them fumbling away over there.
The boss could be supportive in their thoughts.
I wonder how I could enable this employee to master this skill.
I wonder if this task is a good fit for this employee.
Perhaps it is better suited to another.
I will give them some time to work it out for themselves, then possibly ask if they require any help at a later time.
This is just an itty bitty example.
I believe that the supportiveness of the thoughts of the boss, impact the quality of the work by the individual. And how that individual feels in the frustrating moment.
The other side of the coin.
The employee may have been inundated with non-supportive talk throughout childhood.
So even if the boss is not thinking it, they have a negative self-talk loop running in their mind.
Self-deprecating thoughts run commonly through the collective.
We were taught this in childhood. Or not.

I find this holistic view at every interaction relevant. Yet tricky to optimize.
Awareness is an important step.
When things do not feel good, are not going well, is it within me? Or are there hindering effects coming from outside? Or both. What choices do I have to improve the situation? It is a giant experiment, this life.
Experiment away.

So back to intolerance…
The world is laden with this entanglement of entrained critical and judgmental thinking.
The belief: I am right. You are wrong.
There is such a thing as the best way.
For me … this is an illusion.
Right is in the eyes of the beholder.
Can we agree on this?
The more we can all recognize this, it would be a healthy start.
It is not uncommon to feel so right about something … and then another detail comes into your awareness that turns that right feeling upside down.
The truth is relative.
The truth is relative.
The truth is relative. To lots of stuff.
(Many would say that we create our reality. Again … a topic for another day.)
Can two versions of the truth exist simultaneously?
I say yes.
Play around with that one. Be open to this.
Life gets way more interesting.
Compassion and efforts at mutual understanding go a long way.
What is true for you may not be true for me.
Relative. Remember?
We are all free to choose. Lots of things. Maybe not every single thing.
Your freedom of choice is your most optimal power point.
Our systems are set up to be less than supportive to the individual.
We find ourselves in a variety of glorious messes. Often of our own creation, but not always.
How to get out of our current suboptimal loop?
Optimize the individual. And become aware of the systemic roadblocks and ways we hinder each other.
Can we shine a light on our intolerance of others?
Highly recommended.
Gets sticky though. Even once we want to reduce and eliminate our intolerance, we will be met with intolerance. It is viral in our world.
Well … there will be a time of transition.
The more who choose to get on the live and let live train, the quicker we can achieve a more harmonious community. In my humble opinion.
Individual … to family … to community … to neighborhood … to city … to province … to country … and the world.
Micro to macro. One individual at a time.
It is hard to take off the training wheels when we increase our tolerance, we will be bombarded with so many others bumping into us with their training wheels still on (intolerance). We get bumped. Again and again.
Yet we still need to try to ride our two wheelers without training wheels.
We will fall over again and again. Until we learn to maneuver with greater skill.

Intolerance to religion, gender, sexual orientation, skin-color, race, political affiliation, choice of clothing, physical illness, mental illness, deformity, smoking, addictions etc., etc., etc.
On a more minor note: Intolerance of imperfection.
Which way is best for the toilet paper roll to be placed in the holder?
How to handle the toothpaste in the bathroom?
How to organize the home and kitchen?
What proportion of time we should spend with our love partners?
The list goes on and on.
Choose your level of focus consciously.
Assess your results from time to time.
Not feeling too good about life?
Time to tweak something.
In your perception.
In your perspective.
In your mindset.
In your thoughts.
In your actions.
Something.
If you truly desire change, the change will likely start with you. Somehow.

Shine a light on your intolerance.
It is likely there.
Optimize your communication skills.
Easier said than done in my experience.
Presently I am focusing on this in my own life.
Where I am on the learning curve is anyone’s guess.

Not to say we cannot create preferences for ourselves.
Nobody wants to be walked all over.
Manipulated into somebody else’s delusion.
“I” statements.
I feel X when you do Y.
Compassionate, heart-open, loving (at least supportive) communication is key.
Not easy. But doable. Eventually.
Ultimately, it is a basic human need to be authentic.
To be respected.
To be loved … exactly as we are.
“Right” or “wrong”.
To be clear, I do not believe in right and wrong.
One man’s right is another man’s wrong.
Infinite versions.
To me this type of supportive communication coaching will be the new black in personal healthcare.
(In addition to better care for our multidimensional anatomy. Our energy field. Can be optimized with a variety of modalities. Another topic for a different day.)
How to tease out the most authentic version of ourselves?
To find our way to be ourselves in the wider world of others doing the same.
If individuals cannot gain some level of mastery with this, the individual will not experience vital health and the world cannot know peace.
Perhaps over-stated, perhaps not.
I am challenged in this area as we all appear to be.
I am willing to keep working at it.
I will do my best.
My best will continue to optimize.
I intend …
to tame the monster (of intolerance) within me.

Peace out.

“Enable the self-healer within.”

Angèle Beaudoin, Beauvera Health, Address, Edmonton, Alberta, Canada, Postcode.

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